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Therapies

Finding yourself a type of therapy that matches your core beliefs

When looking for a suitable type of therapy, keep in mind that psychology is not a hard science. Roughly, there are a few categories:

  1. Therapies for changing beliefs into more rational and positive ones

  2. Therapies for accepting feelings and yourself

  3. Therapies for processing emotional backlogs of past experiences

  4. Therapies for discovering your true nature below your conditioning

Each therapy type makes use of one or a number of the following tools:

  • Exposure

  • Observation (of feelings and thoughts)

  • Expression

  • Logical reasoning

  • Adjusting subtle layers (energy field)

  • Adjusting the body

  • Creating safety (nervous system phase change)

  • Reality check (dehypnosis)

  • Subconscious reprogramming

  • Synthetic drugs

  • Psychedelics

The therapy types (and their sub types) you find below, all make use of a certain number of the tools above. Often, two therapy types could even be reduced to using the same set of tools. But, there will be a difference in the intention or mental model between therapy types. To varying degrees, therapists either intend to:

  • Help you Change vs Help you Accept yourself

  • Focus on the Past vs the Present vs the Future

  • Focus on resolving Problems vs shifting focus to discovering your Qualities or Purpose

  • Evoke progress vs listen Non-Directively

  • Prioritize Logic vs focus on Bodily Sensations vs Silent non-focus

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In this section, some of the most common types of therapy are explained and compared. It can help you find a therapy that suits your beliefs, which is not that easy, because:

  • The way most websites describe therapy types, they contain almost similar elements but mentioned in a different order

  • Each type of therapy is presented as suitable for almost any issue (especially when it concerns fear or stress)

  • It's not explained when and why it supposedly works

 

You should only use this information as a starting point. Read it, make a short list of 2 or 3 types you find appealing and get in touch with a therapist of each type. Ask them about the mechanism they feel their treatment resolves your kind of issue (their mental model). Select the type of therapy you like most and look for at least one more therapist in that field to ask the same questions to. Based on that information, make your choice and fully commit to the therapy (only evaluate afterwards as continuous evaluation affects the results).

This page lists all the major therapy categories and approach types with a brief explanation of the essential idea for the approach. Below the list are the same categories again, but with the critique back and forth that practitioners from the various schools of thought in general would have on each other. This gives you a wholesome idea of the pro's and con's.

The detail pages can be reached by clicking the headers. These show the various modalities of that specific approach type. It shows the differences between these modalities, making it easier to select one.

It might be helpful to keep this conceptual framework (i.e. mental model) in mind when looking into the therapies.

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Categories

CBT-Based Therapies (like REBT)
Focuses on irrational, dysfunctional beliefs that affect your thoughts, emotions and behavior. Once you hold more rational, positive beliefs, your perception of reality will change and so will your behavior.
Works well for: anxiety, stress and unhappiness
 

Psychodynamic Therapies (like Psychoanalysis)
Explores unconscious processes, early life experiences (or even past-life experiences), and internal conflicts to uncover and resolve unprocessed emotions. It assumes that if unconscious conflicts are brought to awareness and resolved, neuroses and distortions in your perception will disappear.
Works well for: mental disorders, depression, anxiety, psychosomatic ailments
 

Humanistic and Existential Therapies (like Positive Psychology)
Supports the individuals understanding of own experiences, purpose and needs, without judgement of any aspect of one's true nature. It assumes that if individuals gain deeper self-awareness and embrace their potential for growth, then they will achieve personal fulfillment.
Works well for: lack of self-acceptance, existential crises, depression, additions and anxiety
 

Systemic and Family Therapies (like family systems)
Views individuals within relational and systemic contexts, focusing on interaction patterns and communication. By role playing in a setting where other participants represent someone in your problematic dynamics, some repressed emotions can be acted out, which were or are too difficult to do directly. This is considered to improve the person's own mental and physical health as well as the dynamics with other people.
Works well for: Interpersonal problems, grief, anger, anxiety, low self-esteem
 

Mindfulness and Acceptance-Based Therapies (like MBSR)
Cultivates the ability to become more aware of the present moment and to observe any unpleasant feelings without judgement. This is achieved by learning the difference between what you feel and what defines who you are as well as falsifying your belief about discomfort by direct experience. to foster resilience and reduce suffering. This is assumed to develop resilience and reduce suffering.
Works well for: Stress, depression, existential crises, negative thoughts, chronic dissatisfaction with life
 

Somatic Therapies (like Somatic Experiencing)
Addresses the mind-body connection to release physiological tension and stress stored in the body. Revolves around creating a sense of safety, then bringing up past traumatic events in order to notice the physical response to these memories, with the purpose of releasing stored tension. It assumes that if physiological tension and trauma are released, then emotional and psychological well-being will improve.
Works well for: Trauma, anxiety, depression, stressful life circumstances
 

Direct Neural Rewiring Therapies (like EMDR)
Leverages neurobiological processes to reprogram the brain’s response to trauma and distress through targeted techniques. It assumes that if neural pathways linked to maladaptive or traumatic memories are accessed and reorganized, then emotional distress, physical symptoms, and dysfunctional behaviors will decrease. This is done through stimulating both hemispheres of the brain through eye movement or tapping while bringing up unresolved memories.
Works well for: Event-based trauma (like PTSD)
 

Energy Rebalancing Techniques (like Quantum Touch)
Focuses on balancing and aligning the body’s energy fields to promote healing and well-being. It assumes that if disruptions in the energy flow are corrected, then the body’s natural healing abilities will be restored, leading to improved emotional and physical health.
Works well for: inexplicable (psycho)somatic issues, lack of energy
 

Ego Awakening Techniques (like Self-Inquiry)
This approach starts from the Buddhist premise that the self is an illusion (ego) and that this illusion is the root cause of all desires, suffering and confusion. It implies that any type of psychological growth would reinforce the root cause of the problem one tries to solve. The lasting solution would be to transcend the egoic illusion. This requires the undoing of your conditioning, which is different for each culture and even for each person. That's why there's a wide range of options, from mind-based to feeling-based.
Work well for: existential crises, chronic unhappiness, stagnant spiritual growth, (or when nothing else has truly worked)
 

Breath-oriented Techniques (like Wim Hof Method)
Utilizes controlled breathing patterns to influence physiological and psychological states. Certain breaths are known to trigger the nervous system into its relaxed mode, where the body shifts energy from protective processes (as in the fight-flight mode) to healing and digestion. It also calms the mind and improves clarity. Other breath patterns are also known to help with processing repressed emotions – even trauma. Some of these routines are also known to access states of higher consciousness, trigger spiritual growth or unlock superhuman abilities.
Works well for: trauma, stress, chronic digestion problems, spiritual growth
 

Body-stimulation Techniques (like TRE)
Focuses on releasing tension and trauma stored in the body through physical stimulation or manipulation. Assumes that if physical tension is relieved and body alignment is restored, then emotional and psychological health will improve. It is often used together with other modalities. Together, they reinforce the benefits of each other.
Works well for: Stress, tension, trauma
 

Psychedelic-oriented Protocols (like Mushrooms)
Uses psychoactive substances to access altered states of consciousness for healing and self-discovery. Psychedelics are known to activate the brain's activity in certain frequency bands that are often associated with long term meditation and enlightenment. Practitioners claim that if guided psychedelic experiences are facilitated well, individuals can achieve emotional breakthroughs, trauma resolution, and expanded self-awareness.
Works well for: Trauma, lack of purpose, depression, stagnant spiritual growth, existential crises
 

NLP
This is more an alternative to therapy than an actual category. It stands for Neuro-Linguistic Programming and makes use of language patterns, mental frames and behavioral changes to change your emotions, thoughts and beliefs. It changes your internal representation of what you experience. The techniques allow you to take control of what you experience as well as many of the dynamics you encounter. Like with hypnosis, NLP can overwrite the beliefs that cause phobias. In some cases, with instant results.
Works well for: limiting beliefs, low self-esteem, lack of success, phobias

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Bukuru's Suggestion

Any successful therapy requires a feeling of safety. Different people need different things to feel safe and let their nervous system calm down. One thing that often contributes, is to be heard with full attention. Another thing, after having been heard, is acknowledging any uncomfortable truth that arises.

Disorders can be really complex and there is not one solution that works for any issue. We can have great results by digging into repressed memories but might have to shift our focus to present moment awareness at some point. Cognitive therapy could make a big difference at some point as well as become the practice that prevents us from developing more awareness of our bodily sensations.

There's a feedback loop between your beliefs, thoughts, emotions, behavior and your attention. The direction and order are a subject to interpretation but if you're serious about resolving your issue(s), it could really help to become familiar with your own ideas about it – inspired by what some of the experts you trust have to say about it.

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About Bukuru

The core philosophy of Bukuru is that each person should test their own beliefs. The project started as a quest to categorize self-development books in such a way that it would become easier to find books that match your beliefs. However, along the way we concluded that the essence of most books can be captured in a few sentences – if the idea is original at all. Instead of helping people buy books, we now help people not buying books.

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